Frequently Asked Bible Questions

Is adultery grounds for divorce?

Did Jesus Christ mean by His statements recorded in Matthew 5:31-32 that the sin of adultery is grounds for a believer to divorce his or her spouse?

The Greek word translated "sexual immorality" is porneia, and it covers a wide range of sexual misconduct, including but not limited to adultery. The word encompasses many other sins of a sexual nature. Christ's words in Matthew 19:1-12 shed more light on the subject.

The Bible Knowledge Commentary explains that porneia referred to "a relentless, persistent, unrepentant lifestyle of sexual unfaithfulness (different from a one-time act of illicit relations)" (1983, 1985, notes on Matthew 19:1-12). In other words, Christ referred to a pattern of immoral behavior or habitual sin. Other scriptures bring out the fact that there is a difference between sinning and living in sin (1 John 3:8). There is no doubt that sexual misconduct could be grounds for divorce, although there should be hope of saving the marriage if the conduct is not habitual.

Another essential godly principle is forgiveness. One should not abandon a marriage without knowing whether the offending party truly repented of his or her conduct. Considering God's intent for a marriage to last until death, divorce should occur only when there is no repentance or chance for forgiveness and reconciliation.

A Christian's goal should always be to save the marriage. Sadly, in some cases, that simply won't be possible. Christ gave "except sexual immorality" as the "exception clause." If a divorce does occur under these conditions, remarriage is possible without God considering it adultery.

Related Online Resources

The Seventh Commandment: Protect the Marital Relationship from the booklet The Ten Commandments
Unless the natural desires that attract us to members of the opposite sex are channeled exclusively toward a loving marriage relationship, the temptation to engage in sexual immorality can easily overpower our self-control. This weakness is the focus of the Seventh Commandment.

Adultery: No Longer Shameful?
What does habitual and rampant adultery tell us about a person and a nation?

What does the Bible teach on the subject of divorce and remarriage?
Marriage was created by God, and so the Bible contains His teachings on marriage, divorce and remarriage.

God's Instruction Manual for Marriage from the booklet Marriage and Family: The Missing Dimension
Marriage is one of God's most wonderful gifts to mankind. It is a treasure worth working on, cherishing and sustaining. His instructions are as valid today as ever.

Divorce-Proof Your Marriage from the booklet Marriage and Family: The Missing Dimension
Because so many marriages—particularly in modern Western countries—end in failure, couples trying to live godly lives and make their relationships last will look for ways to protect and preserve their marriages.

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