Is it OK to have boyfriends out of the Church? Should you try to tell them about "the way" or leave them alone?

First, you need to have as many friends as you can at your age.


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First, you need to have as many friends as you can at your age. However, friends who are a bad influence should be avoided (1 Corinthians 15:33). Also, romance should be saved for the time in which you plan to marry. Having a relationship that awakens love before the time can be harmful, not to mention very distracting.

When it is time for you to be dating, you should date those who share the same values and have the same goals. If you make a commitment to God, He will guide you and bless you with all the rest of your life.

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