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Jesus left no doubt about His mind on the subject of marriage in His statements in Matthew 19:4-6: "Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning ‘made them male and female,' and said, ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh'? So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate."

Following the scriptural example, the United Church of God graciously welcomes into our fellowship all people who repent of their sins—any sins. But we neither practice nor recognize same-sex "unions" or marriages.

Homosexuality is an explosively controversial subject in our present society, but not a new issue for the Church of God. It confronted the early New Testament Church. Note the following from 1 Corinthians 6:9-10: "Do you not know that the unrighteous and the wrongdoers will not inherit or have any share in the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived (misled); neither the impure and immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor those who participate in homosexuality...will inherit or have any share in the kingdom of God" (Amplified Bible).

Based upon the biblical instruction, the United Church of God believes homosexual behavior to be both unnatural and sin (Romans 1:26-27). The Scriptures are plain on the subject.

What of people who practiced homosexuality in the past? Here is what follows the above quote: "And such were some of you. But you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus and by the Spirit of our God" (1 Corinthians 6:11). Members of the Church of God in Corinth were guilty of some or all of the sins listed—including homosexuality—but later converted and turned from their sins. Following the scriptural example, the United Church of God graciously welcomes into our fellowship all people who repent of their sins—any sins. But we neither practice nor recognize same-sex "unions" or marriages.

Comments

  • stephencummings

    A family usually comes after marriage. In a family of a same sex marriage,who's going to play father and who"going to play mother.I believe that a family is suppose to symbolize God's family and same sex marriage is making a mockery of it.

  • CodyCoder

    Why does the bible condemn the effeminate? I've never met an effeminate man who "converted" from a macho-man by choice. They all seem to "come from the factory" this way. No gay person I have ever met says they choose it over straighthood. Not even a single one. I have met a few guys who claim to have been cured - those guys are broken. Really broken.

    As a gay man I can accept that scripture might require me to abstain from the relations I feel are normal for me. This is not an attitude typical among my brethren (read as: other gays). I cannot accept - for even a moment, that we choose our condition.

    Consider AA. AA works for addicts who want to recover as much as possible back to their pre-addicted selves. People might have addiction pre-dispositions but people are not born into an addicted state.

    The reason "reparative" therapies have been so widely disproven suggests to me that nothing was broken and infect, participants become broken when attempting it.

    Please proceed to light your torches now lol...

  • TailorMade

    Hi CodyCoder! I know you left this comment 4 years ago but I am just seeing it so plz forgive my lateness lol! I hope you get my comment. I am a heterosexual female who agrees with this article BUT, there will be no torch-lighting from me. Actually, I agree with the general context of your comment, as I understand it, and I would like to give my answer from my years of study, and as a minister of Christ's. I do believe "homosexuality" and "effeminate" are tendencies which are predispositions of the flesh, just like tendencies to be or have "addicts", "habitual...", "liars", etc. The scriptures teach us that we have a "predisposition" (if you will) to be sinners because of the action of disobedience of one man, Adam; just like we have salvation in one man, Jesus (Romans 5:19). We are born sinners and that includes ALL sin, in whatever form it may be. It is because of this that I believe it when a gay or effeminate person says, "I was born this way". HOWEVER, we don't have to remain in ANY condition of sin that we were born with or formed into because in Jesus Christ "old things pass away, and all things are made new" (2 Corinthians 5:17).

  • bbrown29434

    Wow that is interesting, the scripture did not match up with the narrative. " neither the impure and immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor those who participate in homosexuality...will inherit or have any share in the kingdom of God" is what he wrote but he cited this being from 1st Corinthians Chapter 6 which says
    "Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,
    10
    Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God." I looked up some of these words, fornicators refers to sex before marriage, which is what the rest of the passage focuses on. Effeminate means a male who acts like a female, I don't know the context at that time but it could be anything from being flamboyant to taking up sewing and not providing for the family. Covetous is people who really want something that isn't theirs and revilers are people who use abusive language or scold people.

    The person who wrote this also said "Based upon the biblical instruction, the United Church of God believes homosexual behavior to be both unnatural and sin (Romans 1:26-27). The Scriptures are plain on the subject." it does say those who believe in idols God gave up to Vile affections" women did change the natural use into that which is against nature" possibly stopped marrying, stopped having kids, stopped having sex. "And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet."
    That was separated by a ;(semi-colon) so the sentences can stand alone. And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another. Grammar suggests the lust was between man and woman. men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet. Working that which is unseemly? That does not clearly say homosexual behavior is unnatural and a sin unless you really want it to.

    In the last paragraph he says again the people from Corinthians were guilty of homosexuality, but that is not what the verse said.

    The bible says to leave the judging to god. I like that.

  • Steven Britt

    Where did you look these words up? I generally use Strong's via BlueLetterBible, and when I looked them up it didn't seem to fit with what you've said. This is what Strong's says for fornicators in 1 Corinthians 6:9 :

    1) a man who prostitutes his body to another's lust for hire
    2) a male prostitute
    3) a man who indulges in unlawful sexual intercourse, a fornicator

    and here is what Strong's says for effeminate:

    1) soft, soft to the touch
    2) metaph. in a bad sense
    a) effeminate
    1) of a catamite
    2) of a boy kept for homosexual relations with a man
    3) of a male who submits his body to unnatural lewdness
    4) of a male prostitute

    If you have a source that argues otherwise, then I'd be interested to read it (comments don't allow links, but the name should suffice), but many translations agree that homosexuality was intended. Given that homosexuality was explicitly outlawed elsewhere in the bible (such as Leviticus 18:22), it really seems like a moot point anyway since there will be no sin of any kind in God's kingdom.

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