Mr. Robin Webber
Sermon Transcript
January 12, 2002
A Transformed Tongue
People love to talk. Sometimes too much. Sometimes they say things that just simply should not be said. I am sure you and I at one time or another have talked about tripping over our words. But if we were really honest, it is more than trip. What it really is is a crash landing. And we just havent admitted it. And sometimes we are the last ones to know that we really bombed out by what we said.
No! Talk is not cheap. Its misuse can cost you everything that you hope for that is near and dear, your spouse, your children, your job, your neighbors, your friends, a number of items. And even more importantly, ultimately our words can cut us off from our God. But what I want to share with all of you today is an even grander point, and I think a very positive point, and that is that our words can also bring us together with people and can also endear us to our God. For a moment, allow me to draw a contrast between the proper and the improper use of our tongue.
Now all of us in America have basically grown up with the old nursery rhyme, "sticks and stones may hurt my bones, but words will never hurt me." The reality is that words do hurt. They really do. And each and every one of us, if we want to be honest, have been hurt by the words used against us, and we have hurt others by the words that we have used against them. Yes, words do hurt.
Join me if you would for a moment over in the book of Job. If you think about it Job goes back, oh my, what? 1500 B.C. or so. This is probably the oldest literature that is in the Bible. And some things do not change. Notice in the book of Job, Job 19:1, lets understand his plea and his cry in discussing words. Job 19:1. And then Job answered and said, how long will you torment my soul and break me in pieces with words? Yes, words then and words now, our words, even to those individuals that we love, can indeed cause great pain.
Now as Christians God asks us to be much different, incredibly unique in how we speak to our fellow man. And that is what I would like to talk to you about this afternoon, the role of the Christian in using our tongues.
Come with me if you would to the book of Colossians. We have already been going through some of the literature written by Paul. But now lets go to the book of Colossians, and lets go to Colossians, chapter 4, and notice where I would like to take you today. In Colossians 4 lets allow Gods word, and Gods word alone on the Sabbath day to create a framework of discussion and moving our hearts together to glorify God and to do what he wants us to do. In Colossians 4:5 it says to walk in wisdom towards those who are outside, redeeming the time. And let your speech always, always, be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one.
Wonderful scripture! Mentioning that our speech as Christians should be grace filled. It should almost be seasoned as if there was salt on it. You know when it is seasoned, I dont know if you are like me, but if there isnt salt on things I'm probably going to give away my diet situation but if there is a piece of meat and there is no salt, I am not going to touch it. But if there is some salt on there I am going to go back again, and again, and again, and again because it is just savory. It is wonderful. It attracts. And that is exactly what Paul is saying in this bit of verse.
Now why do we want to discuss this subject today with you here and now? Why as your pastor is this my first message to you in 2002? As we enter a new year, there is probably no greater challenge that you and I are going to face on an ongoing daily basis, minute by minute, moment by moment, week by week, person by person, than how we use our tongues and the words that we use, as to whether or not we are going to build up, or whether or not we are going to tear down our relationships with God and with our fellow man. Again, why do I bring this message to you? It is an increasing challenge for Christians living in this world that increasingly has lost its way, lost its good manners, no longer uses wisdom in how we talk to one another, how we communicate with one another. Seemingly we are in a world where more and more people pride themselves on their liberty, their first amendment right to say what they want to say, how they say it, when they want to say it, and the words that they want to say it with. People today talk dirty. People today use language that when I was a boy my mother would have washed my mouth out with soap, and did! And sometimes even as Christians we forget the unique calling that God has given us, that our speech and our tongue and our words are to be grace filled, and are to be seasoned, and we are to be unique in the way that we use our tongue.
We have been called, brethren, to something very unique. You and I have been called to be very, very different than the world that is around us. Lets think this out for just a moment, and lets consider something for a moment. What is Gods messenger to this earth? What was is? What is he called? Jesus Christ in scripture is called The Word. He came by word, and he came by deed to represent the clear and unpolluted picture of the plan of God for humanity in human form. You might want to say, putting those two thoughts together, he was the perfect word.
Now lets carry that thought just a little bit further. Lets think of the words "perfect in word", and lets turn to Hebrew 6. In Hebrew 6 there is a thought that I would like to share with you, and something that my mind has been on, and my wifes mind has been on, and we talk a lot, and this is where we want to move to, and I think this is where the body of Christ needs to move to in 2002. Lets notice Hebrew 6:1. Therefore, leaving the discussion of the elementary principles of Christ, the basics, those matters that we came into the way on, it says now knowing those, having understood those, now we go on to perfection. Not laying again the foundation of repentance from dead works, or faith towards God, or the doctrine of baptisms, or the laying on of hands, and/or the resurrections, and/or of eternal judgment. Those are things that you and I know. But now the author of Hebrews is saying, now knowing this, now we move onto perfection. Because its now what you know, its what you are and what you are doing. And what the author of Hebrews is saying then is, knowing this, and you know that Jesus came to earth, God in the flesh in human form, living the perfect life, dying the perfect death in obedience, and being raised in glory. Knowing that, believing that, embracing that, now your life is changed. Now your life is different. Now you dont want to do what everybody else is doing out there that you were doing before God tapped you on the shoulders and said, I want you to be one of mine. Everything else pales into insignificance with the crown that is laid up for you in heaven. Now you are going to do things differently. And the way that God knows that you are moving towards perfection is not by what you know, but by what you do, and by what you say, and by how you say it. And when you are controlling your tongue, and it is not only a tongue in cheek but it is a tongue in check, because its a mind in check, and it is a heart that is in control, your life is going to be different. And you are going to be a witness of Jesus Christ living in your life, and not just Robin Webber, or David Hoover, or Rory Darden, or Scott Darden, or John French, or Rene Gruder, or anybody else that might be in this room. A new life. So this afternoon, lets consider for the time remaining the Christian responsibility of a spirit-led tongue, offered to God for Gods glory.
First of all, we need to take a reality check and know what God has asked us to do when it comes to the matter of the tongue. And perhaps there is no better outline than the book of James, if you will join me there for a moment. In the book of James the apostle James offers an incredibly blunt description of the tongue, found over in James 3. Now even as I say James 3 I am sure you and I shudder, because we have all gone to James 3 sometimes just like a mirror thats on a wall, and you go, oh no, not James 3. Not that indictment about my tongue. But it is interesting, maybe you have never noticed the initial encouragement that is in James 3, the positive point. Notice verse 2. James is saying, for we all stumble in many things. If anyone does not stumble in word, he is a perfect man. There is the encouragement. He is a perfect man. And if you can hold your tongue and control your tongue, then you are on the way to bridling the entire body. So there is the encouragement of where to start. Because you know, like any discipline in life once you get one thing down it kind of moves into every other aspect of your life, whether you are doing exercise, whether or not you are doing dieting, whether or not you are working on a specific area of overcoming in your life. Once you are working in that area it tends to just spill over, because you are now thinking not of yourself but of God, and having God live his life in you.
Notice what it says though, now starting in verse 3. Indeed, we put bits in horses mouths that they may obey us. And we turn their whole body. And look also at ships. Although they are so large and are driven by fierce winds, they are turned by a very, very small rudder wherever the pilot desires. It is just talking about, you know, thinking of being in the back of a boat, a little rudder how it just makes the boat go back and forth. Even so, the tongue is a little member and boasts great things. See how great a force a little fire kindles.
Now just because the tongue is little doesnt mean that it cant create a lot of destruction. You know, especially here in California where it is dry, we all have the difficulty in our houses with termites, dont we? Well a termite is just a little, little bitty bug, but that termite left unchecked with all the other little termites, you take all the little termites, and if you dont deal with them over a period of time the whole house can ultimately come tumbling come. And if, using that analogy, we dont understand the power of the little powerful words that we do use, and leave them unchecked over a period of time, it can create the same amount of damage.
Notice, it says, even so the tongue being little, being like a little fire kindles, and the tongue is a fire, a world of iniquity. Now when James was writing this, here he is writing in Palestine, you can only imagine what a forest fire was like in Palestine, which is much like our own Mediterranean climate right here, seeing it is the original Mediterranean climate in Palestine. And if a fire let loose in the Judean wilderness, or up in the mountains of Lebanon, once it took off it just took off. There is no controlling it. And what James is trying to tell us is that, look that tongue left to itself is like a fire that is not even trying to be abated. It just goes and it goes. It is explosive. James is basically telling us that a tongue that is not under control is like dynamite in our dentures, and we need to be very, very careful.
And it defiles the whole body and sets on fire the course of nature. And it is set on fire by hell. For every kind of base thing and bird or reptile and creature of the sea is tamed, and has been tamed by mankind. A very Jewish thought, James being a Jewish Christian. The Jews would often go back to Genesis 1, Genesis 2, about the initial admonition of God to Adam and Eve that they would have dominion over nature. And so that thought always runs through Jewish literature. And so the thought comes that God placed man to have dominion over the animals. Even so, it is very hard for a man and woman to have dominion over our tongues and over our words. Here we can make tigers go through hoops, we can make seals balance a ball, we can even take a gigantic elephant and make it a beast of burden. But we cant keep the tongue still in its own cage.
No man can tame the tongue. It is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison. Now something we need to recognize, it is not talking about the persons tongue next to you. That is talking about your tongue. That is talking about my tongue. That there can even be poison.
There is snake in South America. It is called the Two Step Snake. Anybody have any idea why it is called the Two Step Snake? I'll take a hand. Wesley, is that you? Stand up, please. Go ahead, nice and loud. Pardon? I cant quite hear. No, but if it bites you, Wesley, you will only step two times, because it has so much poison and it is so venomous that when an individual is struck by it, in two steps it is over and out and you are dead. Lets think about for a moment. James thought about the poison snakes, and South America, and lets put it all together. The reality is that at times our biting tongues have stopped people in their tracks. At times on purpose, if we want to admit it. And sometimes unknowingly. Both are wrong. Both are offensive. Both are sin.
Notice what it says here in James 3 then, speaking of the tongue. With this tongue we bless our God and Father and we curse men. James is saying that doesnt make sense. For these men are made in the similitude of God. And out of the same mouth proceed blessings and cursings, my brother. These things ought not to be so. And then a rhetorical question. Lets go through it a moment. Does a spring send forth fresh water and bitter from the same opening? And can a fig tree, by brethren, bear olives, or a grape vine bear figs? Or if you want to bring it up to date, can an apple tree bear oranges? Now it doesnt make sense. Thus, no spring yields both salt water and fresh. Who then is wise and understanding among you? Let him show by good conduct that his works are done in the meekness of wisdom.
Now, with that stated, we got through James 3 again. We are indicted. I am indicted. Our words are ever before us to look at, ponder, and to do better with. Lets understand what James is saying and what he is not saying. He is not saying that silence is better than speech. James is not forbidding speech. Abstaining is no substitute for the victory that our God wants for us, with us learning to control and check our tongue for him. James is not pleading for cowardly silence, but wise use of speech. So where do you start, where do I start in having a tongue in check, in control for God? Such wisdom comes from the words of Jesus Christ, who pinpoints what the tongue is connected to.
Join me if you would over in Matthew 12. Come, lets go right to the gospel, and lets notice what Jesus Christ said about the tongue and about words in Matthew 12:34. Now there were times when Jesus Christ was the wisdom of God, and God in him lashed out and was powerful in words, and notice what he says here in Matthew 12:34. Brood of vipers, speaking of snakes, how can you being evil speak good things? For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. A good man out of the good treasure of his heart brings forth good things, and an evil man out of the evil treasure brings forth evil things.
Now what Jesus Christ is telling you and telling me on this Sabbath day is that our tongue does not stop right here in our cheeks. Now you know we all sometimes go to the doctor and we stick out our tongues. We make our little tongue noise as we stick it out at the doctor. The doctor sticks his tongue back out at us I was just teasing. The point is this. Our tongue does not end after four or five inches. What Jesus Christ is telling us in reality if you look at the anatomical picture is the tongue actually goes much further, almost down here somewhere. Jesus Christ is using an analogy that really the tongue is connected and goes all the way down to your heart. That is where it begins. You have to go to the source. You have to know how far to reach back, or you dont understand it. Just like in the last century when people were looking for the source of the Nile. How far back did it reach into deepest, darkest Africa? Of course, then, you have Stanley, and Livingston, and everybody else. And what Jesus Christ is saying is, there is no secret how far the tongue goes. It goes down to the heart.
Now stay with me in this analogy if you would for a second. When you and I go to a service station what do we do? We open the hood to see how our car is doing. We open up the hood in front, and we get out the oil stick. We clean it, we take it out, and we look at it, then we stick it back in, and then we take it back out just to see two things. Number one, how much oil is in the oil tank. And number two, what is the quality of the oil? What is down in there? How is your engine running after all? That is what Jesus Christ is alluding to here. That the tongue is the dipstick to our heart. And if you really want to know what is in your heart, just listen to what you are saying with your tongue. How often have you had somebody say, "Oh, I didnt mean that. Oh, I didnt mean that." Yes, they meant that. Of course they did. Thats what they meant. It came out of their heart. It came out of the tongue. So you cant blame your tongue. You have got to blame your heart. You cant blame the moment. You have got to blame your person. You have got to take responsibility for what you are saying.
Just notice what else it says here in Matthew 12. But I say to you that for every idle word men may speak, they will give account of it in the Day of Judgment. For by your words you will be justified. And by your words you will be condemned. Why? Because words that are spoken by your tongue are connected to your heart. And it is not what you are on the outside, but it is what you are on the inside that counts with God. And God is holding us, brethren, responsible for words.
I think we need to go back to the full understanding that what I am sharing with you today is a part of equipping the saints of God for preparing themselves to be the bride of Christ. The crown that Mr. Hamilton talked about today does not come cheap. It does not come easy. It does not come without a price. The price, of course, is the sacrifice of Jesus Christ first and foremost. And we cannot buy it. We cannot earn salvation. We cannot buy salvation. But we can show God we understand what salvation is about by the way that we live. And thats what we want to talk about.
The idle words that are spoken up here comes from a Greek word argos that means unprofitable. It means unfruitful. Jesus Christ says that we are going to be judged by the unfruitful, unprofitable words that we use. Also our words, like I said, can endear us to God. Thats kind of encouraging isnt it? The words that we use can justify us. Speaking of justification, can endear and warm us to God that he says by the way they are speaking, by the oil that is in their hearts they understand, they know what I am doing for them, they know what my son did for them. They know that they are being called to be kings and priests and to be a part of the answer and not the problems that beleaguer this earth.
For a moment, though, lets understand what a few idle words are when we say idle words. Lets break that down for a moment. Lets talk about idle words. Let me give you three sets of idle words for a moment.
Paul wrote the book of Titus. Have you read the book of Titus, and it talks about it sounds pretty strong when he is kind of taking on the Cretans, because about Titus 1:2, you can look at it later to see if I am right. He says, we worship a God that cannot lie. Now why did he say that to Titus? Why is he reminding Titus of this? Because he wanted Titus to remind the Cretans of this, because Titus was the minister to the Cretans. And in Crete the entire culture was based upon lying. They were a culture of liars. Even the Greek poets wrote about what a lying bunch of people the Cretans were. So all they saw all around them were lies. So how would they think anything less of God than being a liar if everything else around them was a lie? In fact, we have often heard of the term, Corinthianize. Which I wont go to right now. There was a term in the ancient world called to Cretize. To Cretize was just simply to lie. They were know to be liars. Paul asked Titus to remind them that we worship a God who is true to his word. That when he says something he means it, it is well, and it is good. Jesus Christ said, coming to this earth, in John 14 he said, I am the truth. Because of this understanding that lying is idle words, that is why God does not want us to bear false witness, which is the ninth commandment found in Exodus 20. You say, well, false witness, what do you mean? I mean, I havent been called to a jury stand recently. Well, false witness can be lying, it can mean being careless with details, it can be altering the facts, it can be stretching the truth to make us look like we are more in the know, or we are more important, or we werent there, or what are you talking about? All of these are idle. The beauty, if I can share something else, I hope the teens in the room are listening to me especially, because in your teen years you have a real temptation, having been a teenager one time myself, to not get caught. One thing you want to remember is simply this, that honesty is very, very important. When you tell the truth, when you tell the truth, you dont have to remember what you said. The story is going to be there every time.