Many young people not only accept violent or abusive behaviors but consider them normal and exciting.
Jenny Deam, Denver Post staff writer, reported: "According to a March survey of 13-to 18-year-olds, nearly one in three teenage girls in dating relationships say they have feared being physically hurt by a partner. Almost one in five admit being hit, slapped or shoved by a boyfriend.
"Nevertheless, in the same online poll conducted by Teenage Research Unlimited marketing firm, many young people not only accept such behaviors but consider them normal and exciting:
"Nearly half admitted doing something that conflicted with their personal values or beliefs to please a boyfriend or girlfriend. Some said they would 'do almost anything' to hold onto a relationship.
"One in four teens in a relationship said their boyfriend or girlfriend tried to prevent them from spending time with friends or family. But more than a quarter said it was OK and even flattering for someone to 'act really jealous' or 'be in charge.'
"As many as 60 percent of teens in relationships acknowledged their partner made them feel bad or embarrassed about themselves. And 7 percent said their boyfriend or girlfriend had threatened to kill them or commit suicide if they broke up."
—Sources: DenverPost.com, loveisnotabuse.com
