A Model Friendship

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Do you have a really good friend? If not, would you like to? Almost everyone wants to have a close friend, yet for some this goal seems unattainable. Many simply haven't been taught how to make and keep good friends.

Do you have a really good friend? If not, would you like to? Almost everyone wants to have a close friend, yet for some this goal seems unattainable. Many simply haven't been taught how to make and keep good friends.

One of the most famous stories of friendship in the BibleThe books (Greek, "biblia" ) that are acknowledged as canonical (authoritative) by the early Christian Church. It includes both the books of the ancient Hebrew prophets and those of the apostolic witnesses to Jesus Christ. is the one between King DavidKing of Israel, killed the giant Goliath with a sling and stones, a man after God's own heart, only turned from God in the matter of Uriah the Hittite (1 Kings 15:5), had an affair with Bathsheba, Messiah would come from line of David, main author of Psalms and highly musical. and Jonathan. The account begins in 1 Samuel 18:1 just after DavidKing of Israel, killed the giant Goliath with a sling and stones, a man after God's own heart, only turned from God in the matter of Uriah the Hittite (1 Kings 15:5), had an affair with Bathsheba, Messiah would come from line of David, main author of Psalms and highly musical. had defeated Goliath. "Now it came about when he [DavidKing of Israel, killed the giant Goliath with a sling and stones, a man after God's own heart, only turned from God in the matter of Uriah the Hittite (1 Kings 15:5), had an affair with Bathsheba, Messiah would come from line of David, main author of Psalms and highly musical.] had finished speaking to Saul, that the soul of Jonathan [Saul's son] was knit to the soul of DavidKing of Israel, killed the giant Goliath with a sling and stones, a man after God's own heart, only turned from God in the matter of Uriah the Hittite (1 Kings 15:5), had an affair with Bathsheba, Messiah would come from line of David, main author of Psalms and highly musical., and Jonathan loved him as himself" (New American Standard BibleThe books (Greek, "biblia" ) that are acknowledged as canonical (authoritative) by the early Christian Church. It includes both the books of the ancient Hebrew prophets and those of the apostolic witnesses to Jesus Christ. throughout).

While many are aware of DavidKing of Israel, killed the giant Goliath with a sling and stones, a man after God's own heart, only turned from God in the matter of Uriah the Hittite (1 Kings 15:5), had an affair with Bathsheba, Messiah would come from line of David, main author of Psalms and highly musical. and Jonathan's friendship, few seem to have noticed the details about how this relationship began.

Rather than a mere accident—the way many friendships seem to begin today—the friendship between DavidKing of Israel, killed the giant Goliath with a sling and stones, a man after God's own heart, only turned from God in the matter of Uriah the Hittite (1 Kings 15:5), had an affair with Bathsheba, Messiah would come from line of David, main author of Psalms and highly musical. and Jonathan appears to have begun over respect for each other and shared values. This friendship was not a Brokeback Mountain kind of story portraying homosexual love, as some try to grossly misrepresent it. Instead, it is a story of two courageous young men who looked to God for guidance and help.

Before their meeting in the court of Saul, both men had served courageously in the defense of their nation. Jonathan had led 1,000 Israelites in a successful attack against a Philistine garrison in Geba (1 Samuel 13:1-3) and later single-handedly attacked another garrison to lead the Israelites to a major military victory (1 Samuel 14).

A key to Jonathan's success is found in what he said to his armor bearer: "Come and let us cross over to the garrison of these uncircumcised; perhaps the LORD will work for us, for the LORD is not restrained to save by many or by few" (1 Samuel 14:6). And God did work for Jonathan and the Israelites. In the confusion that arose over Jonathan's assault on the garrison, God caused the Philistines to start fighting each other (verse 20).

Unfortunately the war with the Philistines lasted throughout Saul's reign (1 Samuel 14:52), and in the course of time the Philistines brought in their giant warrior, Goliath, to intimidate the Israelites. No Israelite dared to go against Goliath one-on-one. No one, that was, until DavidKing of Israel, killed the giant Goliath with a sling and stones, a man after God's own heart, only turned from God in the matter of Uriah the Hittite (1 Kings 15:5), had an affair with Bathsheba, Messiah would come from line of David, main author of Psalms and highly musical. learned of the challenge and offered to fight him. DavidKing of Israel, killed the giant Goliath with a sling and stones, a man after God's own heart, only turned from God in the matter of Uriah the Hittite (1 Kings 15:5), had an affair with Bathsheba, Messiah would come from line of David, main author of Psalms and highly musical.'s courage was based on his trust in God. Explaining his thinking to Saul, DavidKing of Israel, killed the giant Goliath with a sling and stones, a man after God's own heart, only turned from God in the matter of Uriah the Hittite (1 Kings 15:5), had an affair with Bathsheba, Messiah would come from line of David, main author of Psalms and highly musical. said, "The LORD. will deliver me from the hand of this Philistine" (1 Samuel 17:37).

So when DavidKing of Israel, killed the giant Goliath with a sling and stones, a man after God's own heart, only turned from God in the matter of Uriah the Hittite (1 Kings 15:5), had an affair with Bathsheba, Messiah would come from line of David, main author of Psalms and highly musical. appeared before King Saul in 1 Samuel 18, there were a number of good reasons for Jonathan to establish a friendship with the young man. Both had courageously fought the Philistines. Both were heroes. And most importantly, both had relied on God for help.

The friendship between DavidKing of Israel, killed the giant Goliath with a sling and stones, a man after God's own heart, only turned from God in the matter of Uriah the Hittite (1 Kings 15:5), had an affair with Bathsheba, Messiah would come from line of David, main author of Psalms and highly musical. and Jonathan was the kind where each was a good influence on the other. In this issue we examine how to make and keep good friendships. May we all choose our friends wisely, become better friends with the friends we have and grow in our friendship with God. VT

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