You are hereUCG.org / Sermons / When Someone Comes to You: Listening Instead of... When Someone Comes to You Listening Instead of Defending Given on Jun 23, 2018 by Troy Phelps Listen Downloads MP3 Audio (6.69 MB) Downloads When Someone Comes to You: Listening Instead of Defending MP3 Audio (6.69 MB) × Video of When Someone Comes to You—Listening Instead of Defending In Matthew 18 God shows us the way to resolve conflicts with each other, but it only works when the offending person does their part. Sometimes that offending person will be you! When someone comes to you with an offense, this is what you should do.