Hello Gary. I am also an older never married single woman in God’s Church. You are not the only one. For some of us, I believe we’ve been given the gift of singleness as I heard a minister once say, we might not like the gift God has given us but Father knows best. If one can keep themselves sexually clean, being single is a GREAT GIFT. No one to nag you or vocally fight with. You have FREEDOM. And as one singer put it, freedom is the best gift yet, this singer had been married and divorced several times and is now Happy and SINGLE.