gary mahon Comments
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Very good article Dan, for young people and all singles. A small number of much older never married singles tend to be left out in most churches . I'm in my 69th year, still single, and came form a very dysfunctional odd family and am the baby of it. None of my siblings are married either. I was so shy that i could not talk to girls for a long time. My parents fought a lot and dad had drinking problem and anger problem. I came to WCG at age 26, and at age 27, met another troubled single 21 year old lady. SHe had tried suicide several times she said. Troubled parents too. We wrote letters, but she ended up dying of a drug problem. After that, i dated some elderly widows and much older divorced ladies, and wanted to marry some of them, but they would not. I was very immature and just a laborer survvivor for many years, an low income jobs. I found there were very few single ladies in most all congregations i visited over the years, and since the church splits, extremely few, other than teens and elderly ladies. So, I am 68 yo and alone yet, isolated a lot. Cats have been my closest family. Not many of us old nevr married singles. Our issues not addressed much.
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As a lifetime bachelor in my 70th yr, and been with coG since 1980, i have known many older singles, mostly men, who wanted to have women friends near their age range, and date, and maybe marry, but sadly, many of my single friends have died off alone. When the churches of God address single's issues, it is almost directed toward teen, and 20's people. I know older singles, who say they felt "invisible", or like a "fifth wheel", and our many of us have no family in the churches, or no families at all, and are all alone in the cold world. Most church members are married, and they are far removed form an old single's issues and plights. We are a small minority in any church, Sabbath or Sunday, and the "forgotten ones."