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In many schools across the United States administrators and teachers are implementing the Responsive Classroom approach. In a Responsive Classroom, a teacher sets up a time for the class to meet together in the day, normally in the morning for what is called “Morning Meeting.”

In Morning Meetings, the teacher and students get to spend time together building class continuity. First they greet one another, have a time for sharing, do a group activity and then end with news and announcements. The meeting is also used for things such as setting up classroom routines, modeling appropriate behaviors and discussing changes in the classroom. If there ever was a need to address problems within the class, there was an appointed time that could be used to discuss logical consequences and practice problem solving strategies. This special time for Morning Meeting had to be set aside in the school day, but it was time well spent!

An appointed time

Morning Meeting emphasizes the importance of fellowship in a classroom environment, which has a direct effect on student success socially, emotionally and academically. But did you know that God has given us a means such as this to help us become a more cohesive group of Christians?

In the Bible, God commanded that His people meet every week for a holy convocation or assembly called the Sabbath (Exodus 20:10). Fellowship on the Sabbath gives us the opportunity to grow in our understanding of God’s laws, how to implement those laws in our daily life, and gives us a time to build relationships with our Church family on a weekly basis. Sabbaths and Holy Days are our meetings where God’s ministers remind us of our purpose and God’s plan for mankind. Promoting solidarity and providing a chance to praise God and give thanks in unity, these holy times set God’s people apart (Exodus 31:13).

Promote harmony with action

In Greek, fellowship is koinónia. Strongs defines it as contribution, participation or sharing. The meaning implies there is action when we fellowship; action which includes using our talents and spiritual gifts such as service, faith and hospitality. Remember, our gifts are not in conflict with one another but rather are complementary.

God’s people are told not to forsake assembling together but to rather exhort one another and consider one another to stir up love and good works (Hebrews 10:25). When we ask someone how their week was or what we can pray about for them, or perhaps even open up about our own burdens, we are bringing the Body together and helping mend what needs repairing (Ephesians 4:16).

When we have open, honest communication on a regular basis in which we speak the truth in love, we will have an unparalleled relationship with one another--as David said, “Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity” (Psalms 133:1-3).

Paul writes in Acts 2:42 to continue “steadfastly in the apostles' doctrine and fellowship, and in breaking of bread, and in prayers.” Fellowshipping will help us better understand one another as well as God’s Word and will edify the Body so that the Bride is ready for Christ when He returns. So use that special time that is set aside each week to fellowship. Invite someone over for a meal. Seek to encourage one another. Spend quality time with the brethren and you will be a Christian who understands the value of the Sabbath, a time for fellowship.

Comments

  • Linda Finley Martens

    I like Sherrie Giddens ideas -- that sharing may start with the more mundane subjects. And sharing the burdens and stresses and joys of the week are part of fellowship also. It is so easy to become a bit Pharisaical as we hear other conversations and think they are not good enough. I think if you want people to talk about scriptures, then start the conversation yourself about scriptures. We can't always change others but we can set the example we would like to see.

  • vainquer040505jlt

    I believe Sherrie G has a valid point that needs clarification in light of previous comments. While I agree that there will always be some people "finding their way" and "growing in grace and knowledge," there should also be a group of "elders" providing a living example of the best way to fellowship during the Sabbath. Those who have been walking with Christ for several years should not generally be entertaining superficial conversations. They should be instruments to help guide and maintain Sabbath conversations in the right direction; that is, deeply rooted in God's Word and the Christian experience.
    Consequently, observing and hearing "spiritual babes" having superficial conversations is expected and normal. However, it should not be so with those who have graduated to "spiritual meat." Let me also clarify that conversations rooted in the Word and the Christian experience do not always have to be heavy and/or deep. They may also be humorous, light educational and edifying.

  • Sherrie_Giddens

    @ dust_i_am,
    I would agree that much of the conversation that takes place at services or on the Sabbath may seem to be what we may call superficial, not something that is deep into God's word. That is unless you look around the room and really look at what is going on. Many of the trials that we bare in our lives are personal and at times many of the things that God reveals to us through our studies, when applied to our lives will be applied in very personal ways. The deep conversations do take place, but they take place between individuals that began their friendships with that superficial conversation, getting to know one another and then building a deeper relationship. Human beings tend to share our deep thoughts and personal lives with those that we have developed a deep and trusting relationship with. I am sure there are those that you are closer to, than others, and you probably share more about your self from a deeper perspective with them.

    There are others that may still be finding their way in being able to share their deep thoughts and studies. Our relationship with God is a personal one and therefore our discussions about what we think and feel about Him and His way of life may also tend to be a little more personal. Yes, at times the conversation may seem to be a little on the light hearted side of things. But, if you really look around the room, you will find 2 here or 3 or there talking in what seems to be a very private manner. In most cases I would say that God is very much a part of that conversation. As for those other conversations and those participating, don't try to read too much into it. The Sabbath is also a time for rest. The burdens and trials of the week take a toll on our lives. Sometimes it is nice to just be in a place that is safe with people that we know love us, and not have to think about the week we just came through. Sometimes, even our brains and conversation need a rest. It may be that deep conversation is just too much for some, at times.

    And, there may be those that still need to grow in grace and knowledge. Guiding a conversation, gently, toward what you have been studying may be a way to help. Share what you have been studying in a conversational way, not instructional, that would lead to them continuing the conversation with you.

    We all walk along the path, each of us taking different steps.

  • katbird_27

    I agree with dust_i_am. I LOVE it when people talk of the scriptures after church.

  • dust_i_am

    The points here are very good. I would only add a question for all Sabbath-keepers to consider: what is your fellowship about?

    If all you're talking about are hunting, fishing, guns and gadgets (all this admittedly from a male perspective), is that really what God wants as the focus of our "Christian fellowship"?

    Shouldn't we talk about the deep things of God? What we're studying in the Bible; what God revealed to us this week; whether those "revelations" really have Biblical basis; what successes and trials we had living our Christian faith.

    All these things keep the Sabbath focus where it really belongs - on God and Jesus Christ. Yet sadly, 90 percent of the time Sabbath fellowship seems to be on that other stuff.

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