How Can We Seek God’s Will in the Choices of Life?

This is a profound and timely question—one that many of us may not have paused to reflect on in a while. It’s the kind of question that deserves an entire sermon—or even a series. But for now, let’s explore some foundational principles and biblical keys that can help us better understand and pursue the will of God in our lives.

Jesus taught us to pray, “Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven.” This petition is more than a broad appeal for God’s overall plan to unfold—it’s also a personal reminder to actively seek His will in our day-to-day decisions and direction.

In the Old Testament, the Hebrew word for will can be translated as desire, delight, pleasure, or what is acceptable. When something is referred to as God’s will, it implies that it is a chosen path—one that is both acceptable and pleasing to Him.

We see this same idea carried into the New Testament. Consider 1 John 3:22:

“And whatever we ask we receive from Him, because we keep His commandments and do those things that are pleasing in His sight.” (NKJV)

This verse reveals an important truth: seeking God’s will begins with obedience to His commandments—but it doesn’t end there. It also involves striving to live in a way that is pleasing in His sight.

A practical example of this is found in 1 Corinthians 8:13, where the Apostle Paul addresses the issue of eating meat that had been offered to idols:

“Therefore, if food makes my brother stumble, I will never again eat meat, lest I make my brother stumble.” (NKJV)

While eating such food may not have been a direct violation of God’s law, Paul made a choice based on what would be most pleasing to God—considering how his actions would impact others. This is a powerful illustration of living out God’s will not just in the letter of the law but in the spirit of love and concern for others.

David offers another insight into seeking God’s will in Psalm 40:8:

“I delight to do Your will, O my God,

And Your law is within my heart.” (NKJV)

Here, David emphasizes that doing God’s will starts with delighting in it—cherishing His law and internalizing it. When God’s law is written on our hearts, we begin to form a foundation for discerning the right path, especially when the answer isn’t black and white.

Additionally, God gives us the gift of His Holy Spirit to guide us in applying His law with wisdom and understanding. Through the Spirit, we can learn to navigate life’s complexities and make choices that truly reflect what is pleasing to our Heavenly Father.

Jesus Himself set the ultimate example of seeking and doing the will of the Father:

“For I have come down from heaven, not to do My own will, but the will of Him who sent Me.” (John 6:38, NKJV)

Jesus also experienced human emotion and struggle. We see this deeply in His prayer in the Garden of Gethsemane:

“He went a little farther and fell on His face, and prayed, saying, ‘O My Father, if it is possible, let this cup pass from Me; nevertheless, not as I will, but as You will.’” (Matthew 26:39, NKJV)

This moment reveals the very real tension we face between our emotions and God’s will. In times of intense emotion—fear, stress, or uncertainty—it can be tempting to act based on what feels right in the moment. But these are precisely the times we must pause, seek God in prayer, lean on wise counsel, and patiently wait for His guidance.

Every day brings choices—some minor, others potentially life-altering. When the stakes are high, when consequences are significant, those are the moments to intentionally and prayerfully seek God's will.

Paul offers helpful instruction in Romans 12:2:

“And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.” (NKJV)

When we allow God to shape our thinking and transform our hearts, we are better equipped to discern His will. And when we walk in it, our lives reflect His glory, and the blessings of His way are made evident.

As we approach the Sabbath, let’s be mindful of those in need of prayer. 

Please also remember the many pre-teen and teen camps taking place across the Church of God community. May God bless the campers and staff with safety, joy, and spiritual growth.

Have a wonderful and peaceful Sabbath!