A Real Game Plan for Losing Weight

I now refuse to “diet.” The few attempts I made when I was much younger only caused me to feel deprived and then really “pig out.” I employed strategies that I would use for short periods of time and then slip back into old habits. It has taken me years to learn all I could about nutrition and make small changes. This is war. And wars need “game plans.” I now plan my meals instead of dieting.

The most important part of a plan to lose weight is to admit you have an overeating problem. It could be because you are one of those people who eat their way through a crisis (and every day is a crisis!). You could be depressed and feel you need “comfort food.” Food additives can also damage your body and cause cravings. Or maybe you need to admit you are just a glutton. Whatever the reason, clearly see your overeating as a serious problem that needs fixing. This realization is similar to the realization we make that we are sinners who have to make changes in our lives, and with God’s help, repent. The process of repentance, where we practice a new way of life every single day, is similar to the plan I’ve come up with for staying healthy. It has taken me more than 30 years to come up with this plan and, with God’s help to implement it, it works.

My Weight Loss Plan

Ask God for help.

Tell God your plan and ask Him to help you get healthy so you can better serve Him and your fellow man. God wants what’s best for us even more than we want what’s best for our children. I fasted occasionally to stay close to God and made sure I studied God’s Word every day. Ask God to break the bonds of this addiction from you.

Taking care of your body is important. “Your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit . . . therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s” (1 Corinthians 6:19-20).

Seek wise advice.

Before making changes in diet, it is wise to seek medical advice. A doctor can help eliminate any physical reasons for weight gain that might not be addressed by diet alone. They can also help you discover if an underlying malady requires removing gluten, dairy, etc. from your diet.

“Without counsel, plans go awry, but in the multitude of counselors they are established” (Proverbs 15:22).

Write down everything you eat.

Then you can’t lie to yourself about how much you really eat. It will also show you when you eat. I found I was only overeating at night. You need to see your pattern. (You only have to write it all down at the beginning, but if you slip up really badly, then start writing again!)

Bring only good, healthy foods into your house.

Get rid of the junk. Scripture reminds us that our inputs affect the outcomes: “whatever a man sows, that he will also reap” (Galatians 6:7). If you bring unhealthy food into your home, you’re far more likely to eat it.

What this looks like will vary from person to person; there’s no one way to eat (excluding God’s food laws, of course), but for me, I eat mostly fruits and vegetables, fish, chicken and whole grains. I eat beef only on a rare occasion. I cook with olive oil and eat real butter, but I avoid all animal fat.

When you slip up, stop right then and start over.

Just start over. Don’t condemn yourself or waste time feeling guilty, and don’t wait to start eating healthy again—do it this minute! Even if you’ve just messed up, it’s not the end of the world. It was just one bad minute. Don’t let it turn into one bad day, week or month.

Portion size is important.

If I am not hungry by the time of the next meal, I know my portions were too large. I cut my portions back so that I am hungry by the next meal.

Never sit down with a whole box or bag or a lot of anything. You will eat it all, mindlessly. If I snack, I put a small amount in a bowl.

The Bible teaches that moderation should be used when enjoying food. “Have you found honey? Eat only as much as you need, lest you be filled with it and vomit” (Proverbs 25:16).

Give yourself time to feel full.

Don’t automatically go back for seconds. Make a deal with yourself that you’ll wait 15 minutes. By then the urge will probably pass.

If you really do get hungry, eat. Just eat healthy. I’ve found a few nuts will really hold me longer than almost anything.

Limit consumption of products with white flour and sugar.

I’ve noticed that when I don’t eat white flour products or sugar, I will feel as though I am starving the next day and then I really have a battle. They are notorious for starting cravings, which makes them important to avoid. This includes avoiding sugary drinks.

Stay well hydrated.

What I thought was hunger many times ended up being thirst. I used to feel like I would faint and I would get weak. I would try to eat to get my energy and strength back, and it just wouldn’t come back. Then I started to drink water when it happened, and the energy returned quickly.

Keeping the Plan on Track

If you are depressed or unmotivated like I was, admit it, and get help. There are groups you can join that follow a similar plan: Overeaters Anonymous, Compulsive Eaters Anonymous, Weight Watchers, etc. Or just join up with a friend who also wants to overcome this problem. Do whatever it takes to help you get motivated.

One very important thing I have learned since I have been eating right for a year now is that if you do not get exercise along with it, you will not lose much weight. I lost very little weight for nine months or so, but once I started walking on the treadmill for 30 minutes a day, five days a week, the weight started to drop off. I started very slowly with the treadmill horizontal—and the weight immediately started coming off. I’ve lost 40 pounds in about a year, but the last 22 came off in the last few weeks when I started walking on the treadmill.

I no longer need comfort food. I have realized that God is my comforter, not food. When I use food to comfort myself, I’m putting it on a level where it does not belong. I have personally come to believe that is idolatry.

For the first time in my life, I know I can get healthy. I enjoy buying, cooking and eating the things I know are good for my body. This is doable. I’ve been overweight almost my whole adult life, and I finally know that with God’s help, I will be healthy.