How to respond to comments

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How to best approach responding to others who make comments on the new UCG.org

Answer kindly

Peter's epistle instructs us to "be prepared to give an answer…for the hope that you have," but to make sure we always do this "with gentleness and respect" (1 Peter 3:15, NIV).

Don't return anger for anger

You may have to answer people who are angry or provocative, but always remember that a "soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger" (Proverbs 15:1).

Don't use "churchspeak"

Just as Paul became "all things to all men" (1 Corinthians 9:22), we must be sure that we use language our audience will easily understand and identify with. Examples of churchspeak are "the world tomorrow," "second" or "third resurrection" and "deleavening."

Don't be afraid to admit you don't know

No one but God has perfect knowledge, so if you can't answer a question right away, let the person know you will try to find the answer. Seek out the answer from God's Word and then answer the question. "Cry out for discernment…and…you will…find the knowledge of God" (Proverbs 2:3-5).

Pray for wisdom

In your daily prayers, specifically ask for wisdom to know how to best answer questions about God's truth. We all lack wisdom at times, so let us "ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach," and we will receive His wisdom (James 1:5).

Link to existing material

Many times the best answer can come in the form of an article or sermon from the website's archives. Plus, material on the website has already gone through doctrinal review and approval. After all, "in a multitude of counselors there is safety" (Proverbs 24:6).

Know your Bible

The best preparation for answering biblical questions is to know your Bible well! Make sure Bible study is a part of your everyday life, because "[God's] word is truth" (John 17:17).

 

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Thomas Disher Jr

Tom Disher was born in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania.  He attended Penn State University and completed his Bachelor of Science in Management Information Systems.  After graduation he worked for General Electric while he completed his Master of Business Administration degree. 

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