Self-pity is part of the selfish human nature that the adversary uses as a weapon causing us to think irrationally & focus on the self. We need to Replace self-pity with Love and compassion for others, to put our trust in God & thank him for all his blessings.
My wife and I have been a part of God's church since 1974.
Then ordained an elder in 1984
Currently serving as an elder with the Charlotte, Hickory NC and the Columbia S.C. congregations.