How Can I Find It Easier to Pray?

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From visiting tours through India and Sri Lanka with my wife Ruth, we are finding increasing numbers of people who feel spiritually starved by the false religions and philosophies of this world, ruled by a hate-filled Satan the devil (2 Corinthians 4:4 2 Corinthians 4:4In whom the god of this world has blinded the minds of them which believe not, lest the light of the glorious gospel of Christ, who is the image of God, should shine to them.
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). They are eager to "seek God while He may be found" (Isaiah 55:6-7 Isaiah 55:6-7 [6] Seek you the LORD while he may be found, call you on him while he is near: [7] Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return to the LORD, and he will have mercy on him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
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One lady with many difficult trials, who is earnestly seeking God, said to me recently on our visit to Sri Lanka: "I find it hard to pray. I want to seek God, but how can I overcome and find it easier to pray?"

Have you ever felt that way, too? I think this lady's question touches a common nerve in many of us. It's easy to have a natural aversion or procrastination toward praying to God.

Is there a secret key to unlocking aversion to prayer—an answer to this lady's difficulty, which is common to many of us?

Not mere duty, but a privilege and joy

Prayer sometimes seems to people to be a bit like bodily exercise in experiencing the benefit: Once you get started, it feels good. And once you've finished, you feel even better. But getting started is sometimes difficult.

What was it that really stimulated and helped faithful servants of God like Joshua, Esther, David, Hannah, Daniel and Anna to pray to God?

Was it because they looked at prayer as a duty to perform, some type of obligation or an assignment to struggle through?

Or did they instead view prayer as a privilege, a loving talk with our loving, all-understanding God, an opportunity to communicate with our affectionate Father and our Savior Jesus, His Son? 

Perhaps sometimes we don't truly believe God really knows and cares about us individually and desires to listen to us. We may intellectually know God cares for us, but do we really believe He does?

Faithful men and women of the past came to that reality. Surely we can too!

Yet there was a deeper understanding—a secret key that motivated them in their prayers. What was it?

Approaching God in the right way

God, like any parent, wants to hear thoughts, words and actions of heartfelt love, thanks and requests from His children. Those of us who are parents want warm and loving communication with our children. Wouldn't God, the ultimate Father, desire that with you and me?

There is a tremendous amount of fulfillment in knowing that God is always there to guide us for our asking?

But, we should consider, is there a way of asking, seeking and knocking that God will not hear? And is there a way to ask, seek and knock that God will hear? Is there a secret to our asking, seeking and knocking (Matthew 7:7 Matthew 7:7Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and you shall find; knock, and it shall be opened to you:
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) and reaching God in prayer?

God is pleased with those who faithfully serve Him and will listen when they pray for others. He tells us in James 5:16 James 5:16Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that you may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man avails much.
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: "Pray for one another, that you may be healed. The effective, fervent prayer of a righteous man avails much."

This scripture lets us know how important prayer is and that, though we are only human, God will honor the prayers of a righteous or faithful person who lives by His laws and principles of life (see also 1 John 3:22 1 John 3:22And whatever we ask, we receive of him, because we keep his commandments, and do those things that are pleasing in his sight.
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Now, is there a secret that enables this principle expressed by the apostle James to really work in our prayers?

Yes there is! And this secret involves something that, sadly, not many people express in their prayers. Let's read a few scriptures and see if we can grasp this helpful secret to engaging in prayer.

What motivated servants of God to pray?

What was an important motivating force for Joshua to pray?

Notice Joshua 22:5 Joshua 22:5But take diligent heed to do the commandment and the law, which Moses the servant of the LORD charged you, to love the LORD your God, and to walk in all his ways, and to keep his commandments, and to hold to him, and to serve him with all your heart and with all your soul.
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: "But take careful heed to do the commandment and the law which Moses the servant of the Lord commanded you, to love the Lord your God, to walk in all His ways, to keep His commandments, to hold fast to Him, and to serve Him with all your heart and with all your soul [or being]" (emphasis added throughout).

Notice also Joshua 23:11 Joshua 23:11Take good heed therefore to yourselves, that you love the LORD your God.
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: "Therefore take careful heed to yourselves, that you love the Lord your God."

Let's consider another faithful servant of God, King David. What inspired and motivated him to pray?

Notice Psalms 18:1 Psalms 18:1I will love you, O LORD, my strength.
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: "I will love You, O Lord, my strength."

And Psalms 31:23 Psalms 31:23O love the LORD, all you his saints: for the LORD preserves the faithful, and plentifully rewards the proud doer.
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: "O love the Lord, all you His saints! For the Lord preserves the faithful, and fully repays the proud [arrogant] person."

And also Psalms 145:20 Psalms 145:20The LORD preserves all them that love him: but all the wicked will he destroy.
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: "The Lord preserves all who love Him, but all the wicked He will destroy."

And what key inspired the prophet Daniel and helped make it easier for him to pray?

Notice Daniel 9:4 Daniel 9:4And I prayed to the LORD my God, and made my confession, and said, O Lord, the great and dreadful God, keeping the covenant and mercy to them that love him, and to them that keep his commandments;
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: "And I prayed to the Lord my God, and made confession, and said, 'O Lord, great and awesome God, who keeps His covenant and mercy with those who love Him, and with those who keep His commandments.'"

What inspired Jesus Christ and motivated His close relationship with the Father?

See what He affirmed in Matthew 22:37 Matthew 22:37Jesus said to him, You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.
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: "You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind." And as for Himself, He explained: "But that the world may know that I love the Father, and as the Father gave Me commandment, so I do" (John 14:31 John 14:31But that the world may know that I love the Father; and as the Father gave me commandment, even so I do. Arise, let us go hence.
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Declaring our love to God

In the examples above, the key to a powerful prayer life was verbally expressing love toward God.

Loving God detoxifies our minds from Satan, this world and our human nature. Loving God energizes us and motivates us to pray and lovingly follow His laws and way of life.

That's why it's so good for us, in the morning and as soon as possible in our daily prayers, to tell God we love Him as our Father and that we love Jesus Christ as our guiding Savior, Advocate and Elder Brother.

A great secret is to actually think and speak the words in prayer, from our heart and mind: "I love you, God our Father, and Your Son Jesus, my Lord and Savior."

It is a beautiful way to awake in the morning, quietly thinking of God and telling Him how much we love Him. This is an exquisite way to start our day in the best possible way and it leads us to then pray more easily.

From expressing our love to God, prayer then naturally flows to repentance and asking forgiveness of our sins and to seeking Him for help, guidance, wisdom and strength, through God's Spirit, in keeping His commandments and showing our deep love to Him and to others.

From my personal experience, I know that one prayer that God always hears and mercifully answers is a sincere prayer of repentance for our sins (1 John 1:9 1 John 1:9If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
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; 1 John 3:4 1 John 3:4Whoever commits sin transgresses also the law: for sin is the transgression of the law.
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Of course, our words will prove sincere by our actions in life. In 1 John 5:2-3 1 John 5:2-3 [2] By this we know that we love the children of God, when we love God, and keep his commandments. [3] For this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments: and his commandments are not grievous.
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God tells us how to love Him and others: "By this we know that we love the children of God, when we love God and keep His commandments. For this is the love of God, that we keep His commandments. And His commandments are not burdensome."

Start each day on the right track

If we pray in love to God and read a chapter or two from the Bible each morning, we can be certain our day will go well for us, because we are close to our Father and are seeking His loving guidance and wisdom in our decision-making and in all we do in our lives.

Then throughout the day and into the evening before we go to bed, it's good to be lovingly mindful of God and how He desires us to live by His laws and way of life, which produces blessings for us.

Letting God know in our thoughts and words with Him that we love Him and are thankful for His love for us is a great secret in stimulating our relationship with Him, stirring up God's Spirit within us to motivate us to keenly pray and do God's will.

This, then, is a great secret stimulation to enriching our prayer life—telling God every day how much we love Him!

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