Why does a loving God tell us to fear Him?

How does the command to fear God, repeated throughout the Bible, mesh with His description as a loving God?


The author of Ecclesiastes writes, "Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God and keep His commandments, for this is man's all" (Ecclesiastes:12:13). Such a statement at first glance seems to conflict with other verses in the Bible, such as the one where the apostle John writes, "God is love" (1 John:4:8). But the apparent contradiction disappears when we come to a fuller understanding of the kind of fear the Bible is talking about.

God loves us, and that love is behind the laws and commands He has set in place for us. One of the first things we learn when we begin to understand God is that He hates sin, and that those who choose to practice it in defiance of His law will die (Ezekiel:18:4).

That's something to be afraid of. And so, when we first start obeying God, it could be out of fear of the alternative—death. But the more we keep God's law, the more we come to understand God's love for us. We begin to see that God's laws were not just an arbitrary set of high-stakes rules He set in place just because He could. We discover that He gave us His good laws because He knows that following them will give us the best life possible. Yare' , the Hebrew word translated "fear" in Ecclesiastes:12:13, does not just mean "to be afraid." It carries the additional meanings of to stand in awe of, to reverence, honor and respect.

God does not want us to be in continual terror of Him, though that may be where we start in our relationship with Him. Proper, mature fear of God means having a healthy reverence and respect for the most powerful Being in the universe and the laws He has set in place for our own benefit. We fear God and keep His commandments because He is love. What can we do but stand in awe of that?

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I just want to clarify that the law he gives us in the new covenant is not the same as the law from the old covenant which has decayed... it's the new law (commandment) that he writes on our hearts... to love your god with all you have & to love your neighbor as yourself.


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Imagine a thousand foot tall vertical precipice ... on a mountain high. There's no railing or other safety features ... its a wild wooded mountain wilderness. The wind blows powerfully and unpredictably ... and the rocks sometimes are slippery ... but its a gorgeous place and you want to be there. But you better be careful and have your wits about you. Because one false step and you could die. One mistake, one careless move ... and it could be all over. You want to be there ... but its a place you better respect. In that way its like God.

Remember ... he knows how to live forever successfully ... we don't. So we need to learn from him as he teaches us. And if we don't and won't ... then forever is probably not for us. So ... do you want to live forever? Then you better remember ... God's the deepest precipice that we'll ever see ... don't be foolish, stupid, or presumptuous. And carefully watch your step ... and your manners.

I don't know that this is "the answer". But it probably wouldn't hurt to think about it.

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